I wonder how much of the reason it’s a lot easier for me to say “the only level on which romantic orientation makes sense to me is the ‘do you want to date?’ level and since the answer to that question is ‘no’ I’m aromantic” than it is for me to say the same about… Continue Reading →

Thoughts on Being an Ace Displaced

I think I might have mentioned in my first post about being a Tumblr ace that when I started calling myself a Tumblr ace it was as an apology, a way of saying “I know I’m a member of the cringiest sexual orientation on earth from the cringiest website on earth, I know, you don’t… Continue Reading →

Roundup: Carnival of Aces May 2021

The topic for the May 2021 Carnival of Aces was Words and Conceptualizations. I had six submissions. Thank you all so much! Frawley talked about the different ways they label themself depending on who they’re coming out to in “The Layer Cake of My Identity.” Frawley also discussed the usefulness of approximate definitions in “White… Continue Reading →

A long, drawn-out ramble about pronouns

This is a submission to the May 2021 Gender Exploration Carnival on the theme “Pronouns.” Content Warning: Transphobia and conservatives, mostly in part 3 Part 1: In which I state what my pronouns are So, I use they/she pronouns, and when I say that I like they/them, I mean that I really like they/them. I… Continue Reading →

Roundup: Gender Exploration Carnival April 2021

The theme for the April 2021 Gender Exploration Carnival was “Neurodivergence/Mental Health.” We only had two submissions, but thank you so much anyway! I received the following submissions: Briar — “Lost and Not Yet Found“ You can’t see the outlines of it, light does strange things within the grayness, and your questions get swallowed up… Continue Reading →


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